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PAGMAMAHALAN NG PAREHONG LALAKE
Ano nga ba ang mararamdaman ng isang magulang kung nalaman nila na ang kanilang Panganay na Anak ay magpapakasal sa kapwa lalake at bestfriend nya pa eto?
Patuloy etong nakatago sa kamalayan ng tao.
Ang pagmamahalan ng kapwa lalake ay may iba iba ang naging reaksyon ng mga tao patungkol dito. May ibang nagsabi na hindi daw ito tamang asal sa publiko, may ibang nagsabi na hindi daw ito kaaya-aya sa paningin ng Diyos lalo na ng mga barako, may mga “ka-uri” ring nagsabi na hinding hindi daw nila ito gagayahin dahil isa itong “eskandalo” sa Pamilya. May nagsasabing, nawawala ang sagradong ibinibigay ng Simbahan.
Panoorin natin ang balita ni idol Newscaster Karen Davila of ANC.
THIS IS A NEWS CLIPPINGS IN THE PHILIPPINES.
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Dapat matuto tayong rumespeto sa iba-ibang klase ng pagmamahalan maging ito man ay sa pagitan ng babae at lalaki o sa pagitan ng parehong babae at lalaki.
At sino ba naman tayo para magsabi na ikagagalit ito ng Diyos dahil ito ay mali? Kahit nga sa mismong turo ng ating mga relihiyon ay wala tayong kasiguraduhan.
God’s wisdom is unfathomable, and that’s a universal truth. Hindi natin alam ang plano ng Diyos kung bakit nangyayari ang mga bagay sa ating paligid. We don’t know anything about our journey. Pero ang nagmamahalan ay isang sagrado. What is our purpose?
Maalala ko ang aking kaibigan, hindi nga sila nagpapakasal, pero nagsasama na sila.
Ngunit heto ang magulang nila, nagagalit sa kanilang anak. Hindi nila matanggap na ang kanilang anak ay may kalive in na kapwa lalake. Erespeto na lang natin kung anuman ang kanilang desisyon sa pagmamahalan nila at pagsasama nila bilang tinatawag nilang asawa.
Pinili ba natin na maging lalake din ang makakasama natin sa buhay? Sa aking pananaw sa pagmamahalan ng kapwa lalake ay isang Malayang Pamumuhay. Wala akong nabasa sa Bibliya na hindi pwede magpakasal ang parehong lalake.
Patuloy pa rin ang laban ng pagmamahalan ng parehong lalake.
Pagmamahalan na dapat magpakasal para tanggapin ang madlang tao.
MATINDING USAPIN PA RIN ANG SAME SEX MARRIAGE SA PILIPINAS. HANGGANG KELAN ETO MATATAPOS? MAGKAKAROON PA BA ETO NG KATUPARAN PARA SA LAHAT NG LESBIAN, TRANSGENDER, BISEXUAL COMMUNITY ?
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FOUR WAYS TO FIND YOUR MAN
HOW TO FIND YOUR MAN OF YOUR DREAMS?
FOUR METHODS TO FIND YOUR DREAM MAN
1. Understand yourself. Know your own real needs and distinguish them from other people's expectations. Be honest with yourself about your faults, you need to meet someone who will find your faults minor and forgivable but prize your strengths. Sometimes they are the same thing - a determined go-getter can be described as stubborn by someone who doesn't like her. Try turning every criticism anyone ever gave you inside out, find the compliment version and ask if it's true.
2. Don't expect perfection. If you find it, all the better. But, admit it; you're not perfect. No one is. If you're looking for a 100% perfect man, you will never find him. So be quick to forgive those little mistakes or annoying habits that don't matter, and hopefully he will overlook your imperfections too. Understand what types of annoying habits rile you so much they're a deal-breaker and be up front about those, as well as those you don't think of as a big deal. If you can't stand a forgetful man, you may have to bend on something else to find one who never forgets an anniversary or errand.
3. Be happy being alone. If you want to be ready to find the man of your dreams, then you have to be content with your own company before you begin your search. Forget the myth of finding the man who completes you or makes you whole; you should already feel like a fulfilled, well-rounded being, whose life will be improved by the presence of the right man, but not completed.
4. Love yourself. This is another important point. If you want to be able to find the man of your dreams, you have to love who you are. This doesn't mean that you have to completely love every part of yourself, but that you are confident in who you are and happy with what you have to offer. Being aware of your flaws is part of loving yourself, and it will make you a much more grounded person in a relationship.
2. Knowing What You Want
1. Define the qualities of your dream man. Though you may never know exactly who the man of your dreams may be until you see him from across the room and feel like you've had the wind knocked out of you, you should definitely have a strong sense of the kind of man you're looking for as you go about your search. The qualities you want shouldn't read like a check-list that has to be completed for you to find the right guy, but you should strongly consider which qualities are a must-have for you to pursue the "perfect" relationship. Here are some things to consider:
3. Hooking the Man of Your Dreams
1. Don't lose him for lack of affection. Though coming on too strong can be a problem, so can the opposite problem -- not letting the man know how much he means to you. If you've been together for a while and you haven't told him how much he means to you or gone out of your way to complement him, then you may be closer to losing him than you think. Though men don't generally like to be smothered with love and affection, they do like to be told that they're doing something right.
2. Define your deal breakers. The qualities you don't want can be just as important as the ones you need. If there are a few deal breakers that will mean you can't make a relationship work, no matter how hard you try, then it's better to know what they are up front than to try to stick it out before failing. These qualities have to do with your priorities and what you are not willing to put up with no matter what -- there's no shame in admitting what they are. Here are some qualities that may be your deal breakers no matter what:
3. Get ready to compromise -- about some things. Though you should stand your ground on the things that really matter to you, and be on the alert for any red flags that tell you that the relationship won't work, you should have an open mind when you start a new relationship, even if your "have" and "have not" list is firmly ingrained in your mind. When you meet the right man, you may find that you didn't even know exactly what you were looking for, so get ready for the ride.
4. Know where to look. Knowing what you're looking for is half the battle; the other half is knowing where to look. If you know what your dream man should be like but spend all of your time at home or in the wrong bars, then you'll never get to meet him. The most important thing is to be open to love no matter where you go, because ultimately, no one can predict where you'll find the man of your dreams. However, knowing where to look can greatly improve your chances of meeting him. Here are some great places to look:
3. Hooking the Man of Your Dreams
1. Be the person you want to marry. What kind of person are you attracted to? What kinds of traits does he have to have? To attract the kind of person you like, you have to have those traits too. Also look at traits that are complementary - if you're very domestic, you may be happier with a man who doesn't putter in your kitchen but never gripes about mowing the lawn or cleaning the gutters.
2. Be an interesting person. Find a hobby or two that makes you stand out. Whether you like to play sports, paint, play a musical instrument, or go clubbing at night, surrounding yourself with people of your same interests will increase your chances of meeting the man of your dreams while having fun at the same time. Don't think you have any hobbies? Try something creative, you may have unexpected talents and discover it's fun. Go out and volunteer in your community.
3. Make a good first impression. Though the guy will get to know you as time goes on, you should start off on the right foot. Make an effort to look nice while staying in your comfort zone when you know you'll have a chance to meet men. Even if you're having a bad day or didn't really feel like going out, you should always be ready with a smile and a joke, because you never know when you'll find the man of your dreams.
4. Avoid being codependent. A codependent relationship brings out the worst in both partners and shatters lives. If you grew up in a codependent environment, seek counseling and learn to overcome codependent habits before getting serious about any romantic relationship. You're better off taking your time than enduring the emotional and possibly physical abuse of codependence. That's what it leads to - abuse.
5. Be real. Don't try to be someone you're not, or you may get typecast in a narrow role that doesn't include all that you are. If you're normally casual and dress to the nines whenever you meet him, he may reasonably expect you to dress like that all the time and be disappointed once you're together. If you pretend you don't like books and hook up with him, you may wind up spending the rest of your life having an argument every time you want to order from Amazon.
6. Don't come on too strong. This is a key point to staying with the man of your dreams. If you love him instantly, great, but don't blurt it out unless you're sure you've had the most magical chemistry from the start. If you can see him as your husband, the father of your kids, perfect, but don't mention it on your third -- or your tenth -- date. Let things run their course before you both feel serious enough about each other to talk about the future.
4. Making it Last
4. Making it Last
1. Don't lose him for lack of affection. Though coming on too strong can be a problem, so can the opposite problem -- not letting the man know how much he means to you. If you've been together for a while and you haven't told him how much he means to you or gone out of your way to complement him, then you may be closer to losing him than you think. Though men don't generally like to be smothered with love and affection, they do like to be told that they're doing something right.
2. Make sure you're compatible. This is crucial for the survival of any serious relationship. Your man may look great on paper, but you should also be compatible when you're together. This means laughing easily, having great conversations without hardly ever running out of things to talk about, seeing eye-to-eye on the small things, and being able to get through a day -- or a week, or a month! -- together without fighting every two seconds.
3. Be patient. Give it time, woman. Don't rush to the altar after six months of bliss. If you really want to make it last, then you have to have the patience to go through months, or years, of a good relationship, before trying to force marriage, children, or any serious choices onto your man. For the first year, at least, just enjoy your time together and work on developing a strong bond before trying to leap to the next step.
4. Share the same long-term goals. If both of you want to focus on your careers for the foreseeable future, then great. If you're both ready for the marriage and kids thing, awesome. And if you're okay with living right where you are for the rest of your lives, even better. Unfortunately, it's not often that you can be so in sync with your partner. If you are, then great. But if not, you should make sure that you share as many long-term goals as possible, so you can move forward together.
Of course, you should both be willing to compromise, but this will be much easier if your visions of the future aren't wildly different.
Obviously, the most important shared long-term goal should be developing your relationship. You should both be invested in the relationship 100% to be able to move forward.
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HOT ARTICLES: How to Have a Good Family Life?
Despite the perfect picture families that always seem to loom over us on television, posters and bill boards, there are many more complexities and dynamics to families than all smiles and laughter. All families are different, and all families have their own issues, but with the right amount of work and determination, you can make your family life the very best it can be, by developing your relationships and learning more about yourself and your relatives. No one's family life is perfect; but you can make yours good, so why not?
1. Understand your family well. If you don't then there can be many misunderstandings and fights. Be with them whenever you can and get to know them better. A lot of families now don't get to know each other too well because they're too busy. Plan some family time, like, a movie, or a family game, or even as little as eating dinner together.
2. Respect your family. Your children, your wife/husband are now yours but remember at the end of the day they are also humans. They also have an opinion or suggestion. Sometimes it can be bad or good. Never be angry with someone's opinion, they have their opinions, and no one's perfect.
3. Give time. No one wants to be ignored just for some meeting or work. Give time to each and every one of them so you can understand every individual properly and this can prevent any misunderstandings in the future.
4. Treat everyone as equal. Whether its your maid or stepchild, they also deserve love and affection from you as you deserve from your wife/husband or from your own child. Treat everyone like you would want to be treated, and getting along with your family should be easy
5. Never scream or shout at anyone. This can create hatred for you in their hearts. By simply making them understand can do a lot. Why waste energy when you can do it calmly?
Try not to fight with your siblings. Fighting can tear your relationship apart and you'll regret it when you get older. Treasure the time you have with your siblings, you can't get it back.
6. Never discriminate.
7. Learn to compromise. When you or someone else in your family wants the total opposite of each other, find a way to work it out to give you all what you want.
8. Help each other. When you see your sibling or parent needs help, help them. Doing little things such as holding the door for them, or helping someone with homework.
9. Organizing surprise birthday parties and celebrating any individual's achievements can really help.
10. Avoid using offensive and abusive words against each other.
11. Sometimes teenagers can feel sad or lonely. First ask them about it and if they don't want to share then its OK. It's just hormones. If you think that something is really bad, ask their close friends and help him/her.
12. Never ever break any promise. This can hurt them or make them feel that you are a liar and every time will break promises.
13. Learn to forgive.
14. Don't scold too much. Scolding can be good for them but never overdo it.
15. Make them realize in an easy way. If someone in your family has done something wrong or have betrayed your trust, make them realize their mistake in an easy way.
WARNING!
Compromise is the most valuable tool you have.
Don't put everything down to hormones. If your teenager feels reluctant to talk to you, he or she may be upset about something or being bullied. Ask if everything is okay and win over their trust.
When someone ask you to do his/her work try to do it at that time. Don't postpone it.
If the work is really important then try to make them understand and promise about next time.
Always learn to forgive when you get into a fight with your parents. Just tell them sorry, kiss them, hug them, and make the know how much you love them.
Don't upset them by telling them you don't belong in the family or no one loves you. Apologize to them no matter how bad the scolding gets and hug or kiss them. They will calm down.
Do not get upset when your mum/dad is telling you something and you think they are shouting at you because they are trying to teach you something important.
Never beat or raise your hand to anyone.
Family members are never entitled to be abusive. If they are, don't waste your time. They can't always be won over with patience and kindness. Stay out of toxic situations when you can.
If your family hates each other, try to put them in an situation where giving and receiving help is important.
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